There is an old song that says "Everybody's beautiful in their own way." Unfortunately many woman spend so much time wishing they looked like someone else that they ignore their own special beauty. No one is perfect and you can spend your life mourning the fact that you lack perfection or you can embrace and enhance your own beauty and quit worrying about being perfect.

The truth is that while beauty products can help women enhance their own beauty, they aren't going to turn you into someone you are not. So if you are an average looking woman who aspires to be beautiful then start by accepting who you are and that you have your own special beauty that can be brought out and enhanced. Once you do that you can start seeing the very real possibilities of just how you can become more beautiful.

Start by taking stock of yourself. Start with the top of your head and go to the tips of your toes. Ask yourself the hard questions such as: Is it really my hair color I don't like or is my hair style simply unflattering?" "Is dying my hair the solution or would simply adding some highlights be better?" "What kind of clothes will make the most of my figure and what colors are best suited to me?"

By asking these difficult and searching questions you are going to likely be surprised by the results. Once you take a really objective look at yourself you will see that you are not lacking in natural beauty you simply haven't been making the most of the beauty you do have. Once you discover that you will find that making a few simple changes can make a lot of difference. You will also find it much easier than you think to turn yourself from just average looking into exceptionally attractive.

It will take a little research and experimenting with clothing styles and make up, but it will actually be much easier than you think. If you have a good friend who is willing to be completely honest and blunt with you then ask them for their help. Start by going through your wardrobe and having them choose those items of clothing that really makes you look great. Then, slowly add to those basics as you have the money.

In the meantime work on improving your skin through the use of exercise, diet, and a good skin moisturizer. The healthier your skin looks the more beautiful you will appear to yourself and to others. Most of all as your excitement over your looks grow, you will develop an inner glow that will make you increasingly attractive and beautiful to others. By embracing your own beauty others will see it too.